When I first started dating after divorce… The only men interested in me were 10–15 years younger. They were cute. They had hair. They were fit. But they had no money. And when the check came? They expected me to pay — or at least split it. 😅 Why was I attracting these kinds of men? Because I wasn’t actually ready to date yet. 👉 I hadn’t healed. 👉 I still felt financially unstable. 👉 I wasn’t grounded in my self-worth. And that’s the energy I was putting out and the energy they were respondi